Don't Get Stuck!

I feel the need to do the humans of Earth a good service in pointing out that too many of you are getting stuck in the muddy areas that surround the Path of Enlightenment. As a result, a great number of you are falling by the wayside and are on the brink of never even getting to the destination! Please allow me to "un-stick" you!

See, the first thing that happens to you is that you realize your worth and it’s during that time when you start seeing that you should not be begging for love, that you should be realizing and living your worth, whilst seeking people who will reaffirm that which you have found to be true about yourself... you might even get to the point when you start saying “I’m going to be the CEO of my life and remove and add people as they are beneficial to me and of service to me!” But that’s when you go off the deep end. You need to stop right there. Because the next step isn’t that, but the next step is when you come to know that since you have all of this worth, you ought to be able to give of that worth, give of yourself, add beauty to not only your life but the lives of people around you and you also begin to realize that everyone else has that same worth that you do! They might just not know it yet! You realize that you are a creator and that creators create beautiful things and share those beautiful things that they create! You realize that you are much more than someone who needs to be on a lookout for people to be of service or of benefit to you! You realize that you’re more than just a CEO of your life! You realize that you are in fact, an immortal soul and your vision begins to expand far beyond yourself, on towards others, out towards a whole, into the whole of the world, and even on into eternity. This is the highest stage of enlightenment. The CEO stage is something you’ll really need to step out of.


To Have An Eternal Relationship

Dreaming of that one eternal relationship? It really is just as simple as shifting your scenery. When you are given a certain window by society to look out of, and all you look out of is that certain window— that's the direction in which you are going to head. But once you shift your vision and begin to look out through a different window, you begin to cultivate the neurons in your brain to actually go into that direction you're looking into. Buying thick books on how to have good relationships is unnecessary. Here, I will give you the window to eternal relationships...

I believe that the most important thing for a couple of any sort, to realize in their relationship with each other, is that neither are a limited source. You see, the idea of the soul is that it is eternal and that it continually receives from an Eternal Source. So the idea in any relationship is never really what you can get from it; but the idea is what you can give to the other, what you can put into it. Withdrawing from eternity— and depositing into the physical realm. Of course, as you both give, you are also both receiving from one another, thus a beautiful relationship is formed and maintained. It’s that certain flow that needs to be encouraged and allowed. I say “allowed” because it’s natural, however, it’s usually not “allowed” because our human faculties are taught and bombarded by stupid ideas in magazines that relationships are all about what one can get from it; it’s never about giving! So in a nutshell, the idea is to give because you know that you are receiving from an Everlasting Source, but to also remain graceful and eager enough to also receive gratefully from the other. And this is how eternal relationships are born. We are all conduits of eternity and we happen to meet another conduit whom we feel we belong with, then we share what we receive from eternity and receive what the other has to share.

And now, just to give you an idea of how eternal and fathomless and limitless Eternity really is, here’s a short Astronomy lecture for all of you:

Let’s take a look at what we call “Molecular Clouds.” Molecular Clouds are regions in the universe where stars and planets are born. Within these regions, we find nothing but hydrogen, helium, a smaller quantity of other gases, all of this mixed with dust. Molecular Clouds are the “motherly wombs” of the universe, giving birth to stars and planets in extremely frigid, cold environments (-263 to -223 *C). Now, Giant Molecular Clouds are the clouds that exceed the mass of 100,000 Suns! Stop to think of the mass of our single sun. Then think about the mass of 100,000 of those. A single Giant Molecular Cloud exceeds the mass of 100,000 Suns and reaches up to 300 light years in diameter! Here’s the thing, in our galaxy alone, which we often refer to as the “Milky Way,” we have 1,000 - 2,000 Giant Molecular Clouds! That’s only in our galaxy, which is only one of billions of galaxies that have been discovered. The remaining undiscovered galaxies just in our own universe are probably times billions more than the number that we’ve already discovered. And the fact is already given that our universe is constantly expanding! Now think about this, we might not even be existing in only a universe. We might in fact be existing in a single cosmos which is only a part of the multiverse! That means there could very well be billions of other universes! This, my friends, is eternity! When you say “eternity,” Astronomy gives you a very good idea of what you're talking about!
Bottom of Form

 Moreover, what about applying this concept at a personal, individual level? Why don't we do just that: 

When you see and know that your wellspring is an Eternal Source, and not other people around you, or your past experiences, not even your life story, that is when you are able to truly give to others, without running out and without feeling empty. Because I see God in everything that I touch and feel and think and because I believe that He sees me in everything, too, hence I am able to give to others without thinking of myself as limited source. What I have doesn't come from others, it doesn’t come from my life story and it doesn’t come from a box. What I have comes from a wellspring, an Eternal Source. The good news is that it never runs out, there is plenty for all and for everyone.

Now I'd just like to add, that if you do not believe in God as I believe in God, that does not mean you are incapable of understanding Eternity. On the level of Astronomy, we can all get a good grasp of what it means to be Eternal, whether or not there is a belief in God existing in the heart of the seeker, the knower, the asker, the thinker.

And that about wraps up my discussion for today, I hope this does nothing less than truly transform your lives! 

C. Bells

Eat Cake and Laugh

You can find this in my upcoming book, Wolves of the Sapphire Sun! Coming soon! I hope that you will love it!

Eat Cake and Laugh

You are too serious
You need to take your shoes off
More often
You need to laugh louder
And more than you laugh now
You need to eat weird things
And then laugh at the fact
That you eat weird things
Maybe one day
You should take off all your clothes
And jump into a lake
Maybe one day
You should walk around
In a patch of clovers
And watch the bats fly around overhead
While you try to take away the moon
Maybe one day you should
Turn into a wolf and say
“Oh how wonderful it is
To be so free like this”
And then you will eat cake
Lots and lots
Of cake
Drink some Vodka

Copyright © 2014 Wolves of the Sapphire Sun C. JoyBell C. All rights reserved.


The following is an excerpt from my upcoming book, Wolves of the Sapphire Sun. I hope you will love it!


Just the way that people’s flesh
Covers their bones
And creates a form
That’s covered in that skin
Some freckled
Others dimpled
There are little hairs in all places
All of this together
Along with their sweat
The scent of pheromone
The specks of golden hew
In the eyes
Create etches
Against this stuff
We call the air around us
And sometimes they sigh
They close their eyes
Dust lands on their eyelashes
Or a snowflake when it’s wintertime
And those eyes can contain
Fear or love
Sometimes fear and love at the same time
The way breath sounds on your ear
Is warm and hollow
But full at the same time
Full and held within itself
Within lungs and then upon lips
And nostrils
In and out
They breathe
In and out
And so these sketches move
And they feel and they seek
They are lost
And then found
They grow up and then down
All of these people

Copyright © 2014 Wolves of the Sapphire Sun C. JoyBell C. All rights reserved.

That's What I'm Talking About!

"We are all united by both pain and love. Both a smile and a wound. We are all united by these very basic yet very influential things, because we all recognize them, we all know what they feel like to have or to give. Everything else, all the other things that do not unite us— those things are all illusions." — C. JoyBell C.

A Little Pink Book for Valentine's Day!

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This little pink book is a sweet treasure for you this Valentine’s Day! Introducing the limited edition Vade Mecum for the Feast of Saint Valentine, 2014. Within this small and very pink fieldguide- for- life, you will find C. JoyBell C.’s world-renowned aphorisms, more commonly referred to as “C. JoyBell C. quotes.” An indispensable source of beauty, truth, wisdom (and love); this book is styled to be savored and cherished for life, to be handed down through generations, to become your very own vade mecum. Valentine’s Day is for lovers of every kind, but more than that, it is for those who love themselves, buy themselves chocolates whenever they want and laugh too much all throughout the year! You are wished a very happy and memorable Day of Love (and Chocolates!)

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With a Piece of Chalk

I've watched this video four times now, each time I watch it, tears stream down my face! I need to share it with everyone...

Matchmaking and the Splitting of the Red Sea

Hello wonderfuls :-)

I recently shared a link on my Facebook Page, which I thought I would also share here on my blog, to make it easier for all of you to come back and read it again whenever you wish to. It's called Matchmaking and the Splitting of the Red Sea. I found it to be utterly fascinating and I believe it to be true.

Furthermore, to aide you on your path of finding your Soul Mate, feel free to make use of this: 

You're welcome! :-)

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